function familydates (parm) {

Friday(8,1,1)    // Phony entry must start the year (and end with ,1) 
Friday(9,16) 
Friday(10,21)
Friday(11,18)
Friday(12,16)
Friday(1,20)
Friday(2,17)
Friday(3,16)
Friday(4,20)    //  0 day required if none this month
Friday(5,18,0)  //   Last entry must end with ,0
}